What is up people?

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Ok I realize this is something new to a lot of people out there. The thing is I see a lot of men running around that have very vague, open expectations for the type of women they are looking for. Ask yourself one question, does that make him very open minded? (likely not) or does that make him inexperienced and unsure of what he wants.

Point is people whether you’re a guy looking at a girl or a girl looking at a guy, it is always nice to see people with preferences. To a degree preferences are preferences, or they are a sign that someone is sure of what they want and has narrowed it down to help them make a better decision (that is how a healthy adult mind works). If you have a listing with preferences for a woman between the ages of 18 and 65 years old, with short/long hair/mid length hair/no hair, that stands from 3 foot to 8 foot tall and weighs between 45 pounds and 700 pounds then your probably still experimenting with what type of people you want.

Which in all truths of the matter you shouldn’t be advertising that you want a serious committed relationship. You probably don't know what that is either since you can't figure out what kind of person you like. I generally make it a habit to steer clear of women that have "either" listed for their dating preference, or if they just don't have any preferences listed at all. Just a heads up for what normal, capable, loving minds might look at. For the sake of the world list your preferences, and if you don’t know them then just put "desperate for a relationship, not sure what I want, Ill take anything" in your description section (alternative being "I’m new to the dating seen, I’m not sure if I’m ready for a real relationship, i just want to date/fool around")

Funny thing happened to me, fooled the crap out of me, I reviewed a girl's profile and she had descriptions listed. I personally met the criteria she had listed. She never responded to me. Then one day she wrote and says to me "I ignored your messages because you’re not my type" She sure fooled me, maybe she should have had a better description listed. That would have saved some headaches. Anyways after writing to her to try and get her attention she finally breaks down and tells me that she admires me because i have been so persistent and that she wishes other men were like me. She followed with a compliment after she shot me down, then she proceeds to ask me more questions.

So the point I’m trying to make again is this, preferences are good they help guide people. The final say though is if you don’t meet someone’s preference, but you are really interested you shouldn't hold yourself back. No harm in trying, right?. They might be more open minded than you give them credit for. Thank you and good night.

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`Amanda you always take my posts personally, Im just diggin myself a grave with you arent I? lol

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Well me I don't really have preferences besides physical ones. As vain as that can sound, as long as you're not any of the extremes ( Too fat, too skiny, too muscular, too short tooooo talll ( well maybe not to tall

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`I could be wrong here and i hope i am not because i realy like Amanda because she is an amazing woman and also like Anthony because he is an amazing man.

So i do not want either of you to take this the wrong way or i am digging myself a hole.

My personal opinion is you are both to similar . Amanda is a strong willed woman who knows exactly what she wants from life and she is not accepting anything other than she deserves .Anthony is in a way the same but from his male perspective! he knows what he wants from life but being male looks at things from a different angle which is perfectly natural for a male and that is no disrespect to any male , in other words some males will try something not knowing wether it will work but knows if it does he has made the right choice but if it fails can walk away but that makes it hard on the female (i also know some females are bad news too).

When two people are to similar in the way they think/act ect no relationship between them will work because one will always be competeing with the other , it is even hard to form just a friendship with two personality clashes.

Anyway thats just my thoughts! i could be wrong but if i am please do not think bad of me because i realy do not know you both well enought i am just basing it on what i have read from what you have both written on this site and Anthonys video and my 54 years of living on this earth trying to figure out how peoples minds work and why we just seem to have trouble finding the right person to be with.

I know this from people i have met or had contact with in the past , if we are to alike in the way we think we just do not get on for some reason so i always say just agree to disagree if that makes sense.

I hope niether of you have to wait untill you are my age to find your partners and love.

Both of you take care .

Julia.

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